Final newsletter-Saying Goodbye





(if you click on each picture you can view the poem and pictures better)







# 29 - Singapore Mission Seniors Newsletter - April/May
2012
As President Clark and I leave the Singa-pore Mission, we feel so many competing emotions.
We are so grateful for being blessed with wonderful children at home who have cared for our complicated home affairs in addition to their own busy young family responsibili-ties. Three years is a long time for grandchil-dren to be loved from afar. Our family has been 100% supportive in our efforts to serve, but now they are eager to have us back again. Our 7 year old granddaughter is excited for the trip from Utah to Oregon, so that she can be at the airport to greet us when we get off of the plane. She told her mom, “We’re going to go to the airport and get grandma (and grandpa too) and BRING HER HOME!!!!”
As our heart is drawn toward our patiently waiting family at home, it also is beginning to ache for the “mission family” that we are leaving behind. From the day we stepped off of the plane in Singapore, and met our first Assistants at the airport, there was an instant love that filled our hearts for our mis-sionaries. We left 3 children, 3 children-in-law and three grandchildren at home, but we gained a huge family of missionary sons and daughters and “best friend” senior missionaries. So many of the local members have filled the role of the “angels round about us to bear us up”. We look out over congrega-tions and see faces that will forever be etched in our hearts, as we remember experiences shared and challenges faced together as we have strived to “build the Kingdom of God” in this part of the Lord’s vineyard
President Terrence and Sister Laraine Clark
We Will Truly Miss You

This is a picture of a special plaque cre-ated and given to us by Elder Moody’s parents. Building the Kingdom, it’s what we do. We invite others to come unto Christ by helping them receive the re-stored Gospel through faith in the Lord Jesus Christ and His Atonement, repent-ance, baptism, receiving the gift of the Holy Ghost and enduring to the end. When all is said and done, if we have been able to assist our investiga-tors and new members along the path of conversion to the Gospel instead of simply conversion to the Church, then we have fulfilled that missionary purpose. When one is truly converted to the Gospel, inactivity is nearly impossible to occur.
True conversion to the Gospel begins with Primary children who learn the beginnings of leadership as they participate in leading music, prayers, giving talks and bearing testimonies during Primary time. They learn that the Gospel is happiness, joy and fun. We visit that child and family if they miss a week at church, so that they know they are loved and missed. As children advance into Young Wom-en and Young Men, then they continue to develop their leadership and testimonies. They may partici-pate in lessons, teach lessons, and hold presidency callings in their classes and quorums. They par-ticipate in family history and firmly establish that pathway to the Temple, which they started in Prima-ry. Taking a leading role in the Youth Family History Initiative, they gain a stronger sense of self worth and leadership empowerment, as they gain and expand upon technology skills beyond what most of the adult branch members possess. By the time they enter Young Adulthood, they are prepared to take on the leadership roles in their congregations. They won’t run away into inactivity when given a calling – they have been serving in this aspect of the Gospel culture nearly all of their life. When they are released to serve in another calling, they will understand that they are NOT being “fired” and will continue to serve in whatever area to which they are called.
It is common to be “converted to the church” at first. That is what is so special about our senior cou-ples, you are the experts that the Lord has brought in to help our First Generation adult members get onto the pathway of lifelong “conversion to the Gospel”. You spend hours and hours in teaching and in Member and Leader Support. You don’t walk in front of them (“do it all for them”) or behind them, (refuse to get involved, let them carry it out alone). But we have seen wonderful examples of those of you who have worked right alongside of them, encouraging them to carry out their responsibilities, yet being there to offer a hand when needed.
We will be holding reunion get-togethers in the Salt Lake area around most General Conference times for the next few years. We hope that you will join with us in celebrating the joys and memories that we have shared together these past three years. If you pass near to Portland, Oregon during your jour-neys and wanderings, please stop by to see us.
May the Lord continue to bless you and protect you and pour out His Spirit upon you and the precious people in this part of his Kingdom on Earth.
All of our love and deepest gratitude,
Please keep in touch – our home contact information:
Terry and Laraine Clark
31460 S.W. Isle Way Lane
West Linn, Oregon 97068
503-656-0661
Terry – clarkdmd@msn.com
Laraine – clarkRNC@gmail.com

PS I am also attaching my special “mother’s day flowers” that the kids sent me this year. The white flowers were ar-ranged such that they resembled our pre-cious young dog who died of cancer just before the halfway mark in our mis-sion. You can see by the card that they were starting to get ready and anxious for our return home.


The last newsletter spotlighted Elder and Sister Garrett.  Here are the pictures and words a little easier to see:

The Garrett's! Holding down the fort!
"I love the response Elder Garrett always gives when you ask how he is... "Excellent, but I'll get better."
"Elder Garrett is the Manliest man alive, have you ever heard the story about how he met Sister Garrett?!!!!!!"
"Sister Garrett is very kind and loves to put up with our shenanigans."
"She is so kind and so sweet and positive, just nice to be with"
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Writing a poem about them, the Garretts,
Shouldn't be hard or take too much time.
The difficult part of writing the stanzas,
Is finding the words with their last name to rhyme.

They've been in the office, where all have addressed them
With problems and questions, they hardly could bear it.
When challenges rose or a question unanswered,
We know the procedure, just call up a Garrett.


Apartments and bills and a thousand things running,
Who can explain what to do and declare it,
We love J.P. Morgan when money is in it,
And who puts it there, of course, Elder Garrett.

Who runs her own airline, at least it would seem?
My plane schedule's wrong, oh, who could repair it?
Air Asia, Malaysia, Singapore, Silk Air,
She's magic with changes, our own Sister Garrett.


The Pasir House welcomes, the food is so great,
The recipes sterling, the cake, I love carrot,
The company's wonderful, we'll always cherish
The evenings with Elder and Sister Garrett.




And then there's the van, to the airport and back,
A new couple soon will inherit.
They picked us up green and helped us get settled,
Now the van will deliver the Garretts.


The best part of them, our dear office couple,
Are testimonies strong and we've heard them share it.
Our lives are enriched, we'll always remember
the humble companions Elder & Sister Garrett.
We love you!!!!













We will be in Colorado in 10 days!

Hello all,
This may be our last letter before we leave for home. We leave for the US a week from Tuesday. Where has the time gone? It seems as though we just arrived. Our lives have been so blessed these last 18 months. We have met some incredible people and have seen and heard of many miracles. We have been privileged to have so many of both the Sr. Missionaries and the young missionaries stay in our home as they arrived and others as they leave for home and to be associated with the young missionaries each day. What a blessing it has been to get to know all of them. We may have met them as strangers, but they left as special friends. We will always share a special bond with each other. This has been a hard week as we miss our beloved Mission President and his wife - the Clark's. What a pleasure it was to serve with them and to learn from them. They will always have a special place in our hearts!
Today was our last day in the Masai and Johor Bahru branches. It was hard telling them all good-bye as we most likely will never see them again in this life. Many of the children gave us big hugs as we left - they are all so cute and we love them all. How we will miss them!! We took Elder Jenkins and Valentine with us so Elder Jenkins can finish teaching a family that he was teaching before he was transferred to Singapore (he is a Chinese speaking Elder). Elder Valentine's parents were divorced when he was 5 years old (his mother is from Taiwan and they were living there). His father took him and his 3 siblings back to the US. He eventually married and Elder Valentine's step-mother raised them as her own (along with 5 children she had from a previous marriage). Elder Valentine's father died of cancer 5 years ago, but his step-mother has continued raising them. He hasn't seen his biological mother since he was 5 years old and had lost all track of her. Today in the JB Branch there was a lady visiting from Taiwan. As he visited with her, he found out that she knows of his mother. When she returns home she will contact his mother and hopefully they can be reconnected with each other. What were the chances of meeting someone in Malaysia that knows your mother in Taiwan! A real miracle.
We found out this week that the new office couple, the Jensen's from St. George, will not arrive until the 24th of July - one week after we leave. We will be writing a lot of notes this week and trying to train the office Elders as much as we can on the things we do so they can in turn, train the Jensens. The Jensens can always e-mail us with questions.
The Ho couple from the local ward took us and 3 others to dinner Friday night. They wanted us to have a traditional Chinese dinner before we left. It was sooo good. The best Chinese food we have had - I guess you just have to know where to go. Tomorrow we are going to lunch with the Stake President, President Lai. He jokes that he is taking us to a resturant that only serves durian (a horrible smelling fruit that Singaporians love). He is such a wonderful and humble man. We will really miss him. Tuesday night we are going to the Woo's for dinner along with the new Mission President and his wife. Everyone has been so kind to us.
It seems so strange to think that we will be in Colorado in 10 days! It will be so hard to leave, but we will always be grateful for the wonderful opportunity of serving the Lord in this wonderful part of the world. We are so anxious to see our family, but it is so hard to leave people here behind. Someday, if we are all faithful to the gospel, we can all be reunited in the Celestial Kingdom - what a joyous day that will be.
We will be speaking in our Ward in Colorado on the 22nd of July - we look forward to seeing many of you at that time. We are, in spite of having a hard time leaving here, so excited to see our family and friends!
We love you all,
Elder & Sister Garrett (Dave & Glonda, mom & dad, grandma & grandpa, friends, and relatives)
 
Dinner with the Ho's and friends.

Pres. John and his family (Pres. of Masai Branch), such a wonderful family.

Saying goodbye to President Clark and Sister Clark

Hello all,
As we approach the end of our Mission we seem to get busier and busier. This last couple of weeks has been incredibly busy, emotionally draining,physically exhausting, but absolutely wonderful. We had 18 couples here for our Senior Conference (a total of 6 couples stayed with us - Monday to Saturday) - it was so much work planning, coordinating, and carrying out all the activities, but it was wonderful having everyone together! It was the last time we will see almost all of them. There were many tears as we parted company. What fantastic couples - we love them all! It is amazing that so many are willing to sacrifice 18 months of their lives, at their own expense, to serve our Heavenly Father and the people of the Singapore Mission.
This last week has found us making numerous trips to the airport - 3 of the trips leaving at 3:30 a.m. I think we got about 3-4 hours of sleep each night. We had 3 missionaries leaving for home, 6 new missionaries arriving, our new Mission President and his wife arriving, and our loved Mission President and his wife leaving. What an emotional roller-coaster! We had the arrival dinner for the new missionaries at our house on Wednesday night as the Clark's had to move out of the Mission home Wednesday morning so they can get it ready for the new President. We had the 3 new Sister Missionaries and their trainers stay with us Wednesday and Thursday nights. We cooked breakfast for the 6 new missionaries, their trainers, the AP's and the Clarks on Thursday morning. They did training at the chapel in front of our house. We then fed them lunch and took some to the airport and the bus station that night. We took others early the next morning. The new President (Mains) and his wife arrived Saturday at 5:10 a.m. They are very nice, but we haven't spent much time with them yet. We had a departure dinner that the Singapore/JB zone planned for the Clark's on Saturday night (of course they wanted to know if we would fix the food!). It was such an emotional meeting for the Clark's - how the missionaries love them. Then we took the Clarks to the airport at 3:30 a.m. for their flight home this morning. It was so hard to say good-bye to them (they have served for 3 years). They have become such special friends and we will always cherish the time we spent together.
We came home from the airport and slept for a few hours before attending Church at 1 p.m. We had a young man who just finished his mission in Washington DC fly in yesterday to be released by the Mission President (he is from Kota Kinabalu in East Malaysia). We took him to the airport this afternoon for his 5:40 p.m. flight. Somehow he managed to miss his flight even though we had him there 1 1/2 hrs. early. We then went back to the airport to pick him up and bring him back home with us. I booked another flight for him tomorrow afternoon. Hopefully we won't have anyone else staying with us before we leave on the 17th!
Serving a Senior Mission is wonderful though. We have met so many amazing people that we would never had know had we stayed home. The missionaries are wonderful and treat us like their grandparents! Where else could you have so many grandchildren that love and respect you!
We had a special experience this week. Our grandson Tanner (Susan & Todd's oldest son) left for his mission in Sao Paulo, Brazil on Wednesday (for 2 years). We were able to Skype with them as President McClure set him apart as a full-time missionary. After he was set apart he was hugging everyone that was there and he also hugged the computer (us). Technology is wonderful. Even though you are away from your family, you can still share in many special experiences.
We are so excited to see our family and friends when we return on the 17th of July, but it will be so hard to leave here. Time has gone way to fast! We read a statement recently that said "Don't cry because you are leaving, but smile because you have been there." We will certainly smile with sadness as we remember our time spent here and the people we have met and learned to love so much.
With our love,
Elder & Sister Garrett, (mom & dad, grandma & grandpa, relatives and friends)
 
New missionaries/trainers singing special songs just for us.

Three departing Elders Pendleton, Moody and Whinham.

Clark's at the airport-before tears.

Singapore/JB Zone farewell for Pres. & Sis. Clark.